Sometimes, well, most times it can be hard and hurtful to apologize. But it's ok, we are not Gods and, therefore, although we'd like to love people perfectly that's impossible because we are imperfect beings. When things get bad is just the time to apologize before things get ugly. There's something truly lovely in saying your sorry to the people you love. You could say sorry and then point fingers and tell them they provoked you. Or that you only lashed out at them because they got you mad, but if we really love that person then we wouldn't even be blaming them for our behaviour, would we? So lets remember that all of us make mistakes, but the only mistake that will destroy you is the one you're not willing to admit. Most of the time you'll find that if the person you're apologizing to feels you're sincere, you will be not only forgiven but loved twice as much for your humility to reach out and your willingness to restore what once was.
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